It has been a bit too long since I last posted something here. My apologies. My private practice officially became my full time gig in April and I have been quite busy. However, I will do my best to post more frequently regardless. I believe it has benefit for me and you both. There are two events that I am involved in that are occurring in July that I want to share with you.
The first is on Monday July 14th I will be a member of a panel at the Smith College School for Social Work entitled The Powers of Smith (and Beyond): Smith Alumni Speak. This is convened to welcome Dean Marianne Yoshioka to the School for Social Work by the Council for Students of Color and reflect on the continued importance of the school’s anti-racism mission. “In light of the new dean’s tenure, The Council for Students of Color wants to acknowledge the importance of this commitment for students (as future professional social workers), teachers, and the social work field.”
The panel will be on Monday, July 14th at 7:30 pm in Wright Hall on the Smith College campus.
For more information about the event and participants click here.
The second event is happening on Saturday July 19th at the Two Streams Zen Temple in Westhampton, Massachusetts. I will be leading a practice session and evening salon discussion on healing in the present by connecting with our ancestors. It is titled “We are alive, Now! Healing with our Ancestors. Speaking from our Hearts.” Here is a description of the event.
“During the salon he will share teachings and lead an experiential exercise for participants to connect with their Ancestors to facilitate their own healing and growth in the present. In the evening he will share a bit of his story and how he strives to live with an open heart. We come to this life with deep roots that connect us to those that came before us. There is much suffering, sadness and pain connected to these roots. There is also much joy, celebration and wisdom to nourish us. Enroue will share how we can access the reality of our connectivity with our ancestors to shed and heal our burdens to be free. Burdens that were passed down and burdens that we have come across in our own time and packed up ourselves. We are alive, now! We have the opportunity to heal and free ourselves, our lineages and others. We can draw sustenance from the past as we send healing to the depths of our being.”
I look forward to seeing you there!
On Monday, February 24th from 5:30-7 I will be conducting a support group for parents and caregivers of Common Ground High School students.
“This will be a group for parents and caregivers of Common Ground students to share experiences and concerns about current and upcoming transitions of their children to being young adults and the stressors that may emerge. This will address issues of graduation, their future and safety, and feelings of grief and loss especially in light of the recent death of a fellow student. We will address general issues of coping with our children growing up as well as particular fears and concerns that are affecting parents and families.”
Last night I attended a talk and presentation of the work of the Community Healing Network at ConnCAT here in New Haven. The Community Healing Network is committed to the emotional emancipation of people of African descent here in the US and globally. The founder, Enola Aird is a brilliant and inspirational speaker able to build a foundation on personal and historical stories and facts towards a vision of liberation that has the potential to address our whole personhood in the context of our communities. ConnCAT is also a wonderful organization doing much for young people and adults here in New Haven. Keep an eye on their events and programs.
The short version of one of the outcomes of this presentation is that Healing and Liberation Counseling and the Community Healing Network will find some ways to work together in the future. Our vision and experience sync up nicely and together we can be much more effective than apart. This is also one of the key ingredients to liberation: collaboration and community. It is in our isolation that our worst internal critics find footing and our worst external critics feel strongest. When we are with others we get to shed light onto these critics and can at least make clearer decisions on how to effectively address or ignore them. It can be powerful to simply name that which is holding us back while standing in the community of our supporters(which sometimes we have to learn to find and trust), and then, with others, craft our solutions with our eyes wide open. Sometimes, it is not a matter of dismantling something we dont like, but building something else that is a fuller reflection of ourselves and letting the other sit, rusted and unused in an abandoned field, waiting to be reclaimed by the Earth.
Therapist and Babalawo
“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”
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